"I'd Rather Be A SANE Sinner Then A MAD Puritan"

why are there so many double standards in society today? I'm not usually one to complain....I usually could not give a fuck about feminism or any other "ism" involved in the relations between men and women....but seroiusly WTF?!?! Ok, I guess I'll start at the beginning. A while ago I went on a pub crawl, not exactly stellar news i know, so yeah...I went, I got drunk, and I screwed around with some guy on the dance floor -- I mean nothing too serious or anything --enough to take the edge off of the stress I had been feeling anyway. So, the guy I was fooling around with was nice, a friend of mine knew him for a class she is taking, he was an all round nice guy. At the end of the night we went our seperate ways -- it was fun, no hard feelings, hopefully won't see you anytime soon. I was fine with it...he was fine with it as much as I could tell, but my 'friend' seemed to have issues with this. So for the past week she has been repeatedly trying to give me his number. I her words "he's a nice guy, and even if you aren't very attracted to him you should call him....i mean you made out with him on a dance floor. You don't want to be like one of those ppl, do you?"
And my only thought was huh??? one of what people???

Apparently my friends didn't think it was very "good" for me to take out my frustration and stress on a poor unsuspecting guy in a club.....HELLO!!! what do they think HE was there for? I don't think it was for the atmosphere. It's ok for him because he has a Y chromesome, but not for me because I'm not supposed to have those kind of needs. These people cricising me sit around watching T.V. and movies 24/7 complaining about their hard lives (where mommy and daddy take care of every and any need) and barely ever look outside their circle for new poeple...and they think they have the right to criticise me! I mean, ok screwing around with guys at clubs is probably not the most moral thing to do, but excuse me....FUCK MORALS! I was stressed and needed an outlet - and he certainly didn't seem to mind all that much. I would rather fool around with half the guys in this city and maintain my meager hold on sanity then become a fridged puritanic who does not have a stable grip on reality because they are so concerned with what is right or wrong. My view is, if it feels right do it - Who the Fuck cares what other people think!

jade